Your questions about surrogacy answered

At Real Conception Surrogacy, we understand you have questions. We're here to provide clarity, compassion, and support every step of the way.

Here you will find answers to the most common questions about surrogacy, helping you make informed decisions with confidence. Our mission is to passionately build families around the world for everyone and anyone through surrogacy and egg donation.

Frequently asked questions

What is the surrogacy process from start to finish?

✅ Surrogacy Process – Step by Step

  1. Initial Consultation
    Meet with our team to discuss your goals and ask questions.

  2. Application & Screening
    Complete your profile; we assess your readiness and preferences.

  3. Surrogate Matching
    We match you with a carefully screened and approved surrogate.

  4. Legal Agreements
    Lawyers draft contracts to protect everyone’s rights.

  5. Embryo Transfer (IVF)
    Embryo is created and transferred to the surrogate.

  6. Pregnancy Monitoring
    Regular checkups, updates, and full support throughout pregnancy.

  7. Birth & Baby Arrival
    Your baby is born and placed in your arms with legal handover.

  8. Post-Birth Support
    Continued care for both you and the surrogate after delivery.

What is the difference between traditional and gestational surrogacy?

 

👩‍🍼 Traditional vs. Gestational Surrogacy

1. Traditional Surrogacy

  • The surrogate uses her own egg.

  • She is biologically related to the baby.

  • Fertilization is usually done through artificial insemination.

  • Less common today due to legal and emotional complexities.

Example: The surrogate is both the egg donor and the one carrying the pregnancy.

2. Gestational Surrogacy (What Real Conception Surrogacy uses)

  • The surrogate has no genetic link to the baby.

  • The embryo is created via IVF using eggs and sperm from the intended parents or donors.

  • The surrogate’s role is to carry the pregnancy only.

  • Most common and legally preferred form of surrogacy.

Example: The egg comes from the intended mother or a donor, and the surrogate just carries the baby.

✅ Summary:

  • Type Surrogate’s Egg? Biologically Related? Common Today? Traditional Yes Yes No Gestational No No Yes

 

How long does the surrogacy process take?

The surrogacy process typically takes 12 to 18 months from start to finish, but timing can vary based on your unique situation.

🕒 Timeline Breakdown

  1. Initial Consultation & Screening – 1 to 2 months
    (Meet with our team, complete paperwork, and get matched.)

  2. Legal Contracts – 1 month
    (Drafting, reviewing, and signing all agreements.)

  3. Medical Preparation & Embryo Transfer – 1 to 2 months
    (Surrogate undergoes medical screening and transfer cycle.)

  4. Pregnancy – 9 months
    (Standard full-term pregnancy.)

  5. Post-Birth & Legal Finalization – 1 to 2 months
    (Final documents, baby handover, support follow-up.)

⏱ Total: 12 to 18 months

Faster timelines are possible, but we prioritize safety, compatibility, and legal clarity to give you the best possible experience.

Can we choose our surrogate? What does the matching process involve?

Yes, you absolutely can be involved in choosing your surrogate—and at Real Conception Surrogacy, we make sure it's a thoughtful, comfortable, and well-guided process.

🤝 How the Matching Process Works

1. Understanding You First

We start by learning about your preferences—such as:

  • Health background

  • Lifestyle values

  • Communication style

  • Location (if you’d prefer someone nearby)

  • Whether you want a close or more private relationship with your surrogate

2. Reviewing Surrogate Profiles

We share detailed profiles of fully screened, medically and psychologically approved surrogates who are a good match. Each profile includes:

  • Personal background

  • Health and pregnancy history

  • Motivation for becoming a surrogate

  • Photos and a short introduction video (if available)

3. Meet & Connect

If you’re interested in a potential surrogate, we arrange a virtual or in-person meeting. This gives you both a chance to:

  • Ask questions

  • Discuss expectations

  • See if it feels like a good fit

No one is pressured—both parties must feel comfortable moving forward.

4. Official Match

Once both sides agree, we confirm the match and begin the legal and medical phases of the journey.

✅ Summary: Yes, You Choose — We Guide

You're actively involved in the selection, but you're never alone in the process. Our team ensures it's a smooth, respectful experience for everyone.

 

🤝 Matching with a Surrogate

Yes, you can choose your surrogate — and we guide you every step of the way.

At Real Conception Surrogacy, our matching process is designed to ensure comfort, trust, and compatibility between intended parents and surrogates. Here’s how it works:

1. We Get to Know You

We begin by understanding your preferences, values, and hopes for the journey. This includes:

  • Health and lifestyle expectations

  • Desired level of communication

  • Location preferences

  • Type of relationship you envision with your surrogate

2. Profile Matching

You’ll receive carefully selected profiles of pre-screened, qualified surrogates. Each profile includes:

  • Medical and pregnancy history

  • Personal background

  • Motivation for becoming a surrogate

  • Photos and optional intro videos

3. Meet Your Match

If you’re interested in a potential surrogate, we arrange a virtual or in-person meeting. This is a no-pressure conversation to see if it feels like the right fit for both sides.

4. Confirm the Match

When both parties feel aligned, we move forward with legal agreements and medical preparations to officially begin the journey.

You’re never alone. We handle all the details while making sure your voice is heard, your comfort comes first, and your match is meaningful.

 

What are the qualifications to become a surrogate?

 

✅ Qualifications to Become a Surrogate

At Real Conception Surrogacy, we work with women who are physically, emotionally, and mentally prepared to help create families through surrogacy. To ensure a safe and healthy journey, all our surrogates must meet the following qualifications:

Basic Requirements

  • Age 21–38
    (Mature and within the recommended childbearing age range)

  • Previous Successful Pregnancy
    Must have given birth to at least one healthy child, with no major complications.

  • Physically Healthy
    A BMI within a healthy range (typically under 35) and no chronic medical conditions that could affect pregnancy.

  • Non-Smoker & No Drug Use
    Must live in a smoke-free environment and be free from substance use.

  • Mentally & Emotionally Stable
    Must pass a psychological screening and demonstrate emotional readiness.

  • Willing to Commit
    Able to commit to the full process, including medical appointments and legal agreements.

  • Supportive Lifestyle
    Must have a stable living situation and support from family or household members.

Additional Screening Includes:

  • Medical records review

  • Psychological evaluation

  • Background check

  • In-person or virtual interview with our team

Every surrogate is fully supported and respected throughout the process. If you meet the requirements and are ready to change a family’s life, we’d love to hear from you.

 

Will I have a relationship with the intended parents?

 

💬 Will I Have a Relationship with the Intended Parents?

Yes — if you want one.
At Real Conception Surrogacy, we believe every surrogacy journey should feel comfortable and respectful for everyone involved. That includes your connection with the intended parents.

Here’s how it works:

  • You’ll Meet Before Matching
    Before moving forward, you’ll have a chance to meet and get to know the intended parents. This helps ensure you both feel comfortable and aligned.

  • You Set the Tone
    Some surrogates and parents form close, ongoing friendships. Others prefer a more formal, professional relationship. We support whatever level of communication works best for you.

  • We Help Set Boundaries
    We facilitate early conversations about expectations, contact, and boundaries so everything feels clear and respectful from the start.

You’re Always Supported

Whether you want a warm connection or prefer to keep things more private, we’re here to advocate for your comfort throughout the journey.

 

Who can become an egg donor?

 

🌟 Who Can Become an Egg Donor?

At Real Conception Surrogacy, we work with generous, healthy women who are ready to help others build their families. To become an egg donor, you must meet the following qualifications:

Basic Requirements

  • Age 21–32
    Ideal reproductive age range for healthy egg quality.

  • Good Physical Health
    No major medical conditions, and a healthy BMI (typically under 30–32).

  • Regular Menstrual Cycles
    No history of reproductive disorders.

  • Non-Smoker & No Drug Use
    Must lead a healthy, substance-free lifestyle.

  • Psychologically Sound
    Must pass a mental health screening and be emotionally prepared for the donation process.

  • Reliable & Committed
    Able to attend appointments and follow medical instructions throughout the cycle.

  • No Genetic or Hereditary Conditions
    Family medical history is reviewed as part of the screening.

Additional Screening Includes:

  • Medical evaluation & hormone testing

  • Genetic screening

  • Psychological assessment

  • Background check

  • Interview with our team

We support and guide every donor through the process with care, respect, and transparency. If you meet the criteria and want to make a meaningful difference in someone’s life, we’d love to hear from you.

 

How long does the egg donation process take?

 

⏱ How Long Does the Egg Donation Process Take?

The full egg donation process usually takes 2 to 3 months from start to finish, depending on medical scheduling and coordination.

🗓 Step-by-Step Timeline

1. Application & Screening (2–4 weeks)

  • Complete your application

  • Undergo medical, genetic, and psychological evaluations

  • Wait for approval and potential matching with intended parents

2. Matching & Legal Contracts (2–3 weeks)

  • We match you with intended parents

  • Legal agreements are reviewed and signed

3. Medical Prep & Hormone Cycle (3–4 weeks)

  • You begin a cycle of fertility medications to stimulate egg production

  • Frequent monitoring via ultrasound and blood tests

4. Egg Retrieval (1 day + rest)

  • A minor outpatient procedure collects your eggs

  • You'll need a day of rest after, then can resume normal activities within a few days

📌 Total Time Commitment:

Approximately 6–10 clinic visits over 2 to 3 months.

We work around your schedule as much as possible and provide full support throughout the process.

 

Still have questions?

Contact us today for a personalized consultation and get all your questions answered by our experienced team.